When Mats Steen was a bit of boy, he cherished a small ceramic fox. In his native Norway, a fox is a “reven.”
His mom, Trude, says he carried all over the place. Again then, he might nonetheless stroll on his personal.
He was 7 years outdated when a wheelchair arrived at his home. His mother and father anticipated he would wish it quickly, as his muscle mass weakened attributable to a uncommon situation, Duchenne muscular dystrophy. He hated the wheelchair, so it stayed within the hallway. Despite the fact that he was stumbling and falling, he didn’t wish to use it. Finally, he needed to.
As an grownup he was given a miniature fox as a birthday reward, one thing that was pricey to him and that he noticed on daily basis on his lounge shelf. When Mats handed away in 2014 on the age of 25, the Steens designed a headstone with a fox carving.
A digital model of that headstone seems in World of Warcraft (WoW), a massively multiplayer on-line sport (MMO) that was an enormous a part of their son’s final eight years of life. What they didn’t know till after he died was how massive of an affect he made on others whereas he was there.
The general public meets the non-public eye
Within the role-playing setting of World of Warcraft, Mats was often known as Ibelin, a strong and charming non-public investigator with a muscular physique and lengthy crimson hair. His welcoming smile and delicate nature made him in style with different gamers.
When WoW created an in-game tribute to him, the Reven Pack, which might additionally increase funds for CureDuchenne, a company that helps analysis, early analysis and entry to therapy, the sport’s producers selected a wily fox carrying a detective hat who could possibly be carried by gamers in his personal customized backpack.
In a little bit of kismet, the World of Warcraft artist who created the character, backpack and headstone for the fundraising collaboration can also be named Mats and can also be Norwegian. The fundraiser runs by means of Jan. 7, 10 a.m. PST*.
In January, “The Exceptional Lifetime of Ibelin” premiered on the 2024 Sundance Movie Competition, the place it gained over audiences with the story of Mats and his life inside World of Warcraft, a legacy that surpasses the digital house.
Norwegian filmmaker Benjamin Ree learn a BBC article about Mats in 2019 and was impressed to hunt out the Steens and Mats’ associates in WoW to make a movie about his story.
At Sundance, Ree’s documentary gained the Directing and Viewers awards within the World Cinema/Documentary class, resulting in a streaming take care of Netflix. Subscribers had been capable of start watching it in late October earlier than the tenth anniversary of Mats’ dying on Nov. 18. It’s additionally on the shortlist within the Documentary Function Movie class for the 97th Academy Awards (2025).
In honor of the affect Mats made in Norway, the nation created the Ibelin Award, which shall be granted yearly beginning in autumn 2025 to an individual thought of a job mannequin for players – somebody who takes care of others.
Making a distinction with out ever assembly in individual
Mats’ avatar as a personal investigator wasn’t fully fictional. He saved his wealthy gaming life and group non-public – so his affect was a shock even to his mother and father.
“We knew that he was an excellent listener, however we had no respect for the digital gaming platform being an space the place you possibly can really use this skill for something,” says Robert Steen, who served 4 years as Oslo’s vice mayor of finance and 4 years as vice mayor of well being.
He and his spouse even have an older daughter, Mia. “We had been very a lot traditional mother and father born within the ‘60s and we tried to restrict the variety of hours they spent in entrance of the display. We had no concept about all these folks he had interacted with and helped in numerous methods.”
Robert recalled certainly one of Mats’ associates in World of Warcraft, Lisette (aka “Hearsay”), who can also be distinguished within the movie.
“Her mother and father thought they had been going to assist her by taking her pc away,” he says. “However what they really did with out understanding it was to take her associates away, which led to this very deep despair that might have gone fallacious if she didn’t have folks like Mats to be there for her and lead her by means of that course of.”
The movie exhibits how Mats wrote Lisette’s mother and father a letter to clarify how essential being a part of their World of Warcraft group was, and that it was an actual group who met in actual life.
Mats, although, resisted these in-person conferences. He might nonetheless speak at that stage of the illness, however he selected to not go on digicam or take part in voice chats together with his many associates within the sport. It took a very long time for him to disclose his situation to them, and when he did so, it was by means of a weblog submit.
His mother and father used that very same weblog to inform his on-line associates about his dying and to depart their electronic mail tackle. The following day, messages from his group poured in.
‘Emotional coronary heart of the guild’
Kai Simon Fredriksen, who can also be based mostly in Oslo, met Mats in World of Warcraft by means of their group – the Starlight Guild. Guilds are player-organized teams that present a social construction for WoW players. Inside these teams, they will chat with one another, group up on quests and missions, and share experiences.
Fredriksen calls them “the emotional coronary heart of the guild.” For him, it’s these connections that make World of Warcraft – a franchise that spans 20 years – so partaking. He’s tried different MMOs, however he retains coming again to this sport. “It’s the folks, the group,” he says.
WoW is a social place the place you have got room to inform tales – significantly essential for position gamers like him. Quickly after he joined, Fredriksen, whose character is a con artist, turned the chief of the Starlight Guild. At its most lively, there have been 40 to 50 gamers within the group.
“For those who discover your tribe, you discover individuals who benefit from the form of gaming expertise and group you do,” he says. “You have got a assist community and folks to indicate you new issues.”
Mats, by means of his Ibelin character, discovered Starlight by means of the guild’s occasions all through the sport. Fredriksen says their group had an excellent status and had been seen as one of many extra severe and established role-playing guilds, so gamers utilized to affix them. As soon as he turned 16, Mats submitted his utility.
The rigorous utility course of included two interviews, each in character and out of character, vetted by a number of Starlight members. Mats gave the impression to be an excellent match for Starlight, somebody Fredriksen might think about on adventures, who could be dependable, enjoyable and interesting.
What particularly stood out to Fredriksen about Mats had been his questions. He persistently took the time to pay attention. When he requested a fellow gamer why she was upset, for instance, and discovered that she was struggling to attach along with her teenage son, he provided solutions.
These conversations come to life within the movie, which used unique animation, dozens of videocassettes from the Steens documenting Mats’ life and hundreds of hours of logged chats from Starlight to recreate poignant moments Mats skilled within the sport.
A life ends, a legacy begins
Fredriksen didn’t find out about his pal’s situation till almost the top of Mats’ life. After Mats handed away, the guild collected cash so members might attend his funeral.
Yearly on the anniversary of his dying, members of the guild be a part of different WoW gamers to run the identical route within the sport that Mats’ character Ibelin recurrently ran when he logged on. This 12 months’s run was probably the most attended ever, due to the eye generated by the Netflix documentary. In non-public earlier that day, the guild honors him at a memorial service that his mother and father attend as their shared dwarf avatar, whose title is Stoen2 (Ibelin’s finest pal in WoW was a dwarf known as Stoen).
“[The Steens] have come to grasp gaming so significantly better, and so they wish to speak to different mother and father about this,” Fredriksen says. “It’s a really private and painful story. But it surely’s additionally common within the expertise of being in a group, of getting folks interact with you and construct relationships.”
Sharing a brand new understanding of gaming with different mother and father
After Mats died, the Steens discovered solace in a brand new understanding of their son’s vibrant inside life. That he had saved it non-public ignited a hearth in them: to assist different mother and father notice the advantages of gaming and the way it fosters connections amongst gamers.
“We’ve been asking ourselves the query, ‘Why did we not see this whereas he was alive?’ As a result of we lived underneath the identical roof for all his life, we noticed one another on daily basis and nonetheless there have been so many issues we didn’t see. We don’t find out about them as a result of crucial issues of our lives occur inside our heads,” says Robert.
“We solely tried to take a seat beside him and watch the display with out understanding what was occurring. So, after half an hour or so, we acquired bored. We left for the actual display, which known as tv in Norway. Soccer was on the tv, and I perceive soccer.”
Gaming is the most important leisure exercise in Norway – greater than 85% of all teenagers sport recurrently. The Steens have change into extra knowledgeable in regards to the nationwide pastime and are captivated with discussing it with different mother and father.
“If we as mother and father ought to have any likelihood of being guiding and supporting forces, we have to perceive what’s going on on this digital world,” Robert says. “You shouldn’t take over their world, however it is best to present respect and curiosity.”
Hawken Miller is grateful to the Steens for passing on their classes to his mother and father. Like Mats, he has Duchenne and is a longtime gamer. He’ll flip 28 on the final day of the World of Warcraft charity marketing campaign.
He was about 6 years outdated when his mother and father gave him a Recreation Boy, and he ultimately constructed his personal PC gaming rig as a result of it was simpler to play with a keyboard and mouse. As a journalist, he lined esports, creating weapon loadout guides for The Washington Put up and sport opinions.
“I’m glad that this documentary may help my mother and plenty of different mother and father perceive that there’s extra to what meets the attention,” says Hawken. “You’re attempting to be somebody you aren’t in actual life, and it’s particularly highly effective if somebody has a incapacity and so they can’t do all these issues. It’s the closest factor that they might come to doing it in actual life, in order that positively resonated with me.”
He says that simply being in a sport with others recurrently offers the socializing that individuals crave of their busy lives.
“If you recognize it’s 6:30 p.m., on a weekday and a number of the guys are going to be on, simply to have that place to hang around and play with them, is constructing a connection, even in case you aren’t speaking about your lives,” he says.
Hawken’s mom, Debra Miller, who based CureDuchenne greater than 20 years in the past after Hawken was identified, says she was a “typical mother” who gave her son a tough time about spending an excessive amount of time on video video games, particularly after he graduated from USC in 2019 and moved again residence. That changed into an prolonged keep when the pandemic lockdowns occurred. It took studying about Mats and assembly the Steens to vary her viewpoint on gaming.
“After we got here again, there was one evening that my husband and I had been watching TV, and we might hear Hawken taking part in a sport on-line and he was laughing, trash speaking and simply having a good time. It gave me a complete completely different perspective on what he’s doing,” she says. “Beforehand, I thought of his time on video video games to be completely leisure and on the expense of both faculty or work or true relationships, however I’m now capable of higher perceive the relationship-building throughout the sport.”
Each technology is luckier than the earlier technology
Debra, Hawken’s mother, is hopeful that new therapies on the horizon will permit her son and others with Duchenne to stay longer, a direct results of the work her group has funded over the previous 20 years.
“Each technology is luckier than the earlier technology,” she says of the developments in therapy.
She had by no means heard of Duchenne — a uncommon genetic situation that causes progressive muscle harm and weak spot — earlier than Hawken’s analysis. She labored in promoting gross sales and know-how earlier than founding CureDuchenne.
The nonprofit group helps fund early-stage biotech corporations that develop promising, novel science for treating Duchenne and has invested greater than $26 million in analysis since its creation greater than 20 years in the past. These investments have paved the way in which for enterprise capital corporations and pharmaceutical corporations to speculate an extra $3.65 billion immediately into these biotech corporations, additional advancing their packages.
CureDuchenne has additionally created sources and assist workshops across the nation for households with Duchenne, together with an annual nationwide convention that includes a gaming lounge the place youngsters from across the nation can play video video games collectively.
‘Video games can change lives’
Whereas Blizzard, the studio behind WoW, had reached out to the Steens after studying about Mats in 2019, they had been unaware of the movie till it had already been within the works for 3 years. As soon as they screened the almost-finished model, they granted their full assist to make use of their mental property within the animation.
“There are moments on this enterprise the place you acknowledge that we make leisure, however generally it’s greater than that,” says Holly Longdale, a 20-year-plus veteran within the gaming trade and govt producer of World of Warcraft. “We actually see the affect on somebody’s life, how video games can change lives. These are the recollections in a profession that basically matter.”
Mats’ memorial has drawn not simply those that knew him, however others who wish to bear in mind somebody they misplaced, says Longdale, whose profession has centered primarily on MMOs. She isn’t stunned that bonds are so significant and longstanding inside WoW. She’s identified gamers who’ve met in-game, gotten married, had kids and now play with their kids in-game.
Individuals begin connecting with one another based mostly on how they play, in order that they discover one another on this planet, she says. Mats and his guild discovered one another, partially, as a result of they recognized as like-minded position gamers.
“The sweetness and relatability of World of Warcraft as a world is actually epic. And it may be darkish, combating monsters and stuff,” Longdale says.
“However the world itself is stuffed with whimsy, humor, love and life. And it’s a place you’ll be able to simply hand around in. For instance, within the cities, there’s at all times folks milling about and folks dancing on mailboxes. Even in case you’re simply on by your self, you by no means really feel alone.”
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Lead photograph: Mats Steen, as seen in “The Exceptional Lifetime of Ibelin.” (Photograph courtesy of Robert and Trude Steen/Netflix Studios)
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